A lei can be gifted or worn to celebrate many exciting moments in life, including pregnancy. However, not every lei is appropriate to give to a pregnant mother — in accordance with local Hawaiian tradition, pregnant women should receive and wear an open lei instead of a closed one. Here's the 411 on the history behind this custom.
Why Pregnant Women Don't Wear Closed Lei
Pregnancy is, of course, a special time in all cultures. But with the addition of a lei it can be all the more special. Lei are a symbol of love and respect, and it's common for friends and family to gift lei — especially during showers and sprinkles — to women in their various stages of pregnancy. In Hawaiian culture, though, giving a pregnant woman a closed lei is considered back luck. Considered symbolic of the umbilical cord, if an expecting mother wears a tied lei, it's believed to represent the umbilical cord wrapping around the unborn baby's neck.
So what are the best lei options for pregnant women?
Despite this, don't let it deter you from giving an expecting family member or friend a lei. The best part? Almost any lei can be modified to remain untied — just let us know when placing your order. Some popular picks include any orchid variety, as well as fragrant varieties like pīkake, pakalana and tuberose. Another great option is a haku, which can be worn by itself or in addition to standard lei that drapes across the shoulders.